TO achieve your goal of renunciation ,first control your EGO, then slowly move towards your soul saying I WILL NOT RUN AWAY FROM MY KARMA ,I shall try to respect all irrespective of their disparities ,my life will be in the service of humanity.slowly and gradually u will feel that burden on your soul is relaxed and you have greater insight of rationalising things .In Gita lord KRISHNA advices "Tyaagat shaantih anantaram " lead a stessless life via meditation
